.. says many women are more focused on preparing for their wedding than learning how to make their marriages work.
Nigerian clergyman and a Christian actor, Mike Bamiloye, has averred that many women are not ready for marriage despite nearing the age of thirty.
Taking to his Instagram page on Monday, April 24, the cleric said many women are more focused on preparing for their wedding than learning how to make their marriages work.
He said some women can’t cook a decent meal and are used to eating fast food and junks, while others can’t pray fervently and have shallow knowledge of the word of God.
He decried their level of unpreparedness for marriage and said their eyes would open to the reality of marriage after their wedding.
“RED FLAG ALONG THE WAY
“I am so afraid of the Youths of this Generation.
“Many are not Preparing enough to enter into Marriage. Many are very Shallow in their knowledge of Marriage. They Prepare more for the Wedding Day, than for the Marriage Life. No Deep studies on what Marriage Entails.
“They are too hasty and not Ready to Sit down and Learn the Principles of Marital Life.
“Many Ladies are not qualified to be WIFE even at 28.
They Can’t cook properly. They are used to Fast Food at the Eateries, and Ice Cream and Indomie and Spagetti plus boiled Eggs and Titus, and they spend six months studying the wedding Gowns and the accessories for the Bridal Trails.
AND THEY WANT TO MARRY.
My Dear Sister is 26, by she is still not yet a Wife Material.
But she is Beautiful,
But she can not cook.
She is not Spiritually Strong in Prayers.
And she has a shallow knowledge of the Word of God.
How would she withstand the spiritual challenges that comes against every home now?
How would she take her stand in the Word of God against every wiles of the DEvil that blow against every Christian Home now?
Too materialistic and very little knowledge of Home Management.
The Other time a friend of hers was going to her husband’s house,
She went with a big BOOK OF COOKERY, which was Published in UK.
Unfortunately, there was no Recipes for the cooking of Nigerian food.
Then I was told she downloaded some Applications on her Android phone on How To Cook.
She spent several months preparing for Wedding Day,
But few moment to Study what Marriage Life is.
If LOVE IS BLIND AT COURTSHIP,
IT IS MARRIAGE THAT WILL OPEN THE BLIND EYES.”